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khuntorialurve:

cr: @KV橙艾小诗宝

I’m totally NOT trying to start a fanwar I just want to share my point of view regarding Vic’s “authenticy” when she was with Khun, I’m not saying Vic wasn’t authentic with Kangta, she was, I just want to point some aspects I noticed in her relationship with both.

With Kangta, Victoria, politely, helps him holds the spoon when Kangta tries to feed her, she opens just a bit her mouth and she acts cool and collected while expressing how tasty the cream was; but with Khun, Victoria is just like, mouth wide open waiting for Khun to feed her, and then she ends up shaking her head happily afterwards. 

Don’t get me wrong, I think Kangta and Vic relationship is good, prove of that is how confortable and relaxed Vic was during the show, she even manage to jokingly flirt with her idol because let’s face it, once a fangilr, always a fangirl. But still, I think she was more like a baby when being with Khun, you can see it in this gif, Vic wasn’t really paying attention to her idol image while eating, she just enjoyed being pampered by Khun; besides, psychologically, food has a deep meaning for Vic, she usually shows her love/care to people by cooking for them and she conforts herself when feeling down by making the dishes her mom cooked for her; for Vic, food is her source of strenght, she even said it before, “having a hometown meal can make you feel better/gain strenght” (WGM, ep. 30) 

Psychoanalytically, in the first childhood, food is one of the first ways we have to communicate with the world around us, usually is the mother who provides that food and with that, it creates and determines the bond between the child and the mother which in the future will determine the way we’ll bond with other people, in the best of the cases the mom will provide the child with confort, warm and a feeling of security that the child will perceive as being loved. Vic went to Beijing dance school when she was still a child, food turned for her in something that provides her a feeling of being close to her home/mom; so, it makes sense that Vic makes “her mom dishes” when she feel sad and homesick, because it takes her back to that feeling of security and love. That’s why, sometimes, being feeded puts people in a state of vulnerability, because it is related to the inconscient aspects regarding that very first moment of being feeded, it confront us with the form that we perceive the relationship with the people surrounding us at the moment.

That’s why I just feel that this gif,  shows how much, Victoria and Nichkhun, grew closer to each other; I’m sure that you remember We Got Married, ep 7, when Khun tried to feed Vic with  the “Khun” chocolate, her first impulse was to try to grab the chocolate herself, that reaction makes sense, and shows how authentic she was there because they weren’t familiar back there yet; totally different attitude than in this gif, also, I think this gif, beside the closeness between Khuntoria, shows a differente level of trust and dependency towards him; in fact, the other people I’ve seen Vic being that open with, while being feeded is Luna (Koala ep.1) and Amber (WGM ep. 54);  both of them her members, both of them people really close to Vic, both, people she trust and depends on. 

I think i just ended up just rambling and this is by far, the longer english post I’ve ever written (and I’m not even that fluent, sorry lol) I think what i wanted to say is that I really don’t know if Khuntoria is still as close as they used to be (I hope they are) but at least I know that back there, they were real and authentic and no one can convince me otherwise.

*hate messages to my personal blog , please ^^

Lils

Well said Lils

I totally agree even I was a bit excited to see Vic again ( with her idol together and know how they interact with each other) on a show. It’s been months that we can finally see her…

But I do see the difference when Vic eat and interact with both. She doesn’t care to pretend or polite with Khun and just enjoy being pampered/ baby who she isn’t usually with f(x). With Kangta and her other ideal actor, she is and will always be a big fan girl who support and idolize them :)

In case you don’t know, Lils works as a psychologist, n yeah she is awesome ^^

dooleycouple:

I watched whole Paeksang award show in detail, and seriously, pretty sure the whole Yong Hwa/Shin Hye thing is the funniest incident all night; I knew I love Lee Hwi Jae for a reason.

I kept watching the part over and over again and I couldn’t figure out where he was coming from, I didn’t see anyone backstage at all, he must be surprised that they’re already announcing the winners and ran really quick back out onstage to hand the bouquet to Shin Hye haha 

Then Jang Geun Suk asked for his bouquet as well and YongHwa had to sign with his hands that he doesn’t have any for him >_> 

adorable.

I love ANJells. They are cutest when they are with each other

And did you laugh when JGS said he wanted to work with PSH again? Because I did haha. It’s not like he only worked with her once lol. I guess it’s a pleasure to work with her but this was funny lol

khuntorialurve:

[What was the] Most interesting present from a fan?

“A donation certificate for UNICEF. I felt the fans’ warm heart to the people in need of our help.” 

- Nichkhun {Hottest Japan Interview, 2012}

Could it be?

Giving is always the best and most appreciated gift. After all, kind and generous people (Khuntoria) inspire kindness and generosity. Glad that he was touched by the gift! Khuntorians Jjang!

Thanks for your detective work and tip Guest!

-Vo

Awww never forget